5 Gifts for Nurses and Their Families This Season

When we think of giving gifts for nurses and vice versa, we usually think of things to buy for people. Yet if you think back on gifts you've been given, it might not be the material gifts you received that are foremost in your mind. It might be the kind of gifts that deeply touched your heart and soul.

Here are five gifts of love that we can give to our fellow nurses and their families that can make a huge difference in their lives:

1. The Gift of Caring and Compassion

We all yearn to feel cared for, yet many of us withhold caring and compassion for others. A profound gift we can give to our loved ones is to listen with our heart. We should understand and accept rather than to judge, staying open to learning rather than protecting ourselves from being hurt.

Think about the last time someone actually listened to you and gave you understanding and acceptance. The feeling of being understood and accepted with caring and compassion is one of the best feelings in the world. Instead of focusing on getting this from others, why not focus on giving it to others? You might be surprised at how wonderful you feel in giving this gift to your family.

2. The Gift of Courage

One of the best gifts for fellow nurses and our loved ones is our own courage. This means having the courage to stand in our truth and to be honest about what we want and don't want. It is in knowing what we will do and won't do, what is and what is not acceptable to us. It means having the courage to take good care of ourselves, even if others don't like it.

It means not succumbing to our controlling behaviors that come from fear, anger, withdrawal, compliance, resistance. Instead, it is being honest and above-board about ourselves. It means being willing to face conflict for the right things, rather than give ourselves up to avoid it.

When we have the courage to face conflict and tell the truth, we not only provide our family with a role model for courage. We also provide opportunities for our loved ones to step up to the plate, in the face of truth, and learn to be courageous too.

3. The Gift of Service

We are on this planet to learn to love and help each other. One of the best gifts we can give our family is being a role model of service. Helping others fills the heart and soul in ways that nothing else can. If children do not see their parents offering their services and helping others, they may never learn the great joy and fulfillment that comes from giving. One of the best gifts we can give to our family is to provide ways of doing service such as volunteer nursing.

4. The Gift of Creativity

All of us are born with various ways of expressing our creativity. Expressing creativity is a profound way of connecting with the spirit. Providing your family with many ways of expressing their creativity is a great gift. Creativity can be expressed in so many ways: cooking, crafts, building things, music, telling stories, writing, humor, photography and video. The possibilities are endless! Creative family projects are especially wonderful in creating family closeness.

5. The Gift of Lightness of Being

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Lightness of being—fun, joy, laughter, playfulness—is infectious. Our laughter and playfulness can help others take life less seriously and "lighten up."

Lightness of being is the result of the gifts of caring, courage, service and creativity. When we give these gifts, we feel a wonderful lightness within, the lightness that is the result of fully giving from the heart. Our own lightness of being can bring lightness into our whole family. Children love it when their parents are playful, fun-loving and joyful. Laughing together as a family is one of the most precious experiences in life.

These gifts are far more important than any material thing we can buy for someone. In fact, we might not be so focused on material gifts if we frequently give the gifts of love—of caring, compassion, courage, service, creativity, and lightness of being. And these gifts for nurses and their families are not just ideal for the holiday season. They should be shared every day.
Merry Xmas All!

Source:
Margaret Paul/ nursestogether

Posted by Collins Onyango
Collins is the admin editor nursing pages and nursingpages blog